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Dec. 13th, 2008

  • 10:39 AM
crow
many people on my flist have remarked upon the passing of Bettie Page. many have posted photos of this beautiful woman.... but I found it strange that they were all photos of what she looked like in the 1950s. why do we not see any more current pictures of this beautiful woman, to see her beautifully aging?

I did some research:
In a recent interview, Page has stated she will not allow any current pictures of her to be shown, because she is 25 to 30 pounds overweight.
Bettie Page Resources


I think it is incredibly sad that her career gave her such a terrible self image - that she could not accept herself as less than perfect. it must have been excruciatingly painful for her to go through the aging process and slowly lose her youthful beauty, to feel such self hatred at having a few extra pounds that she won't allow anyone to take a picture.

so the next time you are oohing and ahhing at pictures of Bettie Page, remember how much that idealism and perfectionism damaged her as a human being.

A friend believes the reason for her reluctance is more likely insecurity. "If your grandmother looked like Bettie does today, you'd be thrilled. Her eyes still sparkle. She really looks like her old self."

too bad we will never get to see, or celebrate her beauty as an older woman.

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[info]firewitchsparx wrote:
Dec. 13th, 2008 04:16 pm (UTC)
I completely agree- I was thinking the same thing. There was one photo somewhere, posted as part of a tribute to her on a newspaper page somewhere (somebody on my f-list posted it) that was taken from above. It's a picture of an elderly woman with a large straw hat that obscures her face, but you can see her hands as she autographs a large Bettie Page poster. The caption explained that she wouldn't allow her face to be shown, etc. I thought how incredibly sad. She took SUCH risks as a young woman and opened SOOO many doors. As I get older, it would be great to continue to have inspiration and examples of risk taking women at every age.

Very sad indeed.
[info]starrybatfish wrote:
Dec. 13th, 2008 09:22 pm (UTC)
You are so right. this really hit a nerve.
[info]irisdragonfly wrote:
Dec. 14th, 2008 12:55 pm (UTC)
seconded- thank you for posting this...
[info]scentedwoods wrote:
Dec. 13th, 2008 09:47 pm (UTC)
The quote that I had read was that she wanted to be remembered as she was -- like movie stars. More about age than weight. When I heard that I felt like it matched the mystique she always had about her and it felt consistent.
[info]lli wrote:
Dec. 14th, 2008 12:03 am (UTC)
from the metafilter bettie page thread..
http://www.sondrak.com/archive/skpics2/bettie_page_80s.jpg

She was still sparkling and had a gorgeous smile.
[info]starrybatfish wrote:
Dec. 14th, 2008 05:59 pm (UTC)
Oh-she still had her bangs!
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